Welcome to 2024! Each new year brings fresh resolutions, driving us to surpass the achievements of the previous year. Over time, I’ve observed that health and parenting consistently top my list of resolutions. Through continuous self-awareness, I’ve made significant strides in both realms. Here are some parenting strategies that proved invaluable in my early years as a parent—may they be of help to you too!

1. Strategic Weekly Planning

Take 15 minutes on Sunday night to identify the three most critical tasks for the upcoming week. Allocate time throughout the week to accomplish these tasks. The simplicity of this routine becomes remarkably effective with consistent practice.

2. Focused Work Hours

Evaluate the worthiness of time spent in meetings. If not essential, apologize in advance, review meeting notes, or request a recording for later viewing during household chores. Stay focused on the tasks that truly matter.

3. Choose Impactful Projects at Work

Opt for projects that contribute visibly to the business and align with your priorities. Learning to respectfully decline non-essential tasks is challenging but crucial for maintaining a balance as a parent.

4. Quality Time Before Bed

Dedicate 15 minutes each day to spend with your kids before bedtime. This not only helps address working mom guilt but also creates magical moments with your children.

5. Define Parenting Non-Negotiables

Identify non-negotiables in your parenting approach upfront. For instance, committing to feeding your kids only home-cooked meals and avoiding extended daycare were the top two non-negotiables for me. Align your work schedule to accommodate these priorities, fostering focus and commitment.

6. Delegate Home Responsibilities

Just as resources are allocated to the right projects at work, use your time and energy wisely!  You don’t have to do it all—share responsibilities for cleaning, cooking, laundry, and groceries.

7. Resist Parenting Peer Pressure

Be intentional about avoiding parenting peer pressure. Choose classes and extracurricular activities based on your values and your child’s interests, rather than succumbing to societal expectations. This was the hardest to do and required a lot of self-talk.

8. Grant Yourself Permission to Err

Release yourself from the unrealistic standards we often impose. Mistakes are inevitable; embrace them, learn, and stand tall. By doing so, you impart a valuable life lesson to your children, who keenly observe your every move.

As we embark on this new year, may these strategies contribute to your parenting journey and bring about positive transformations in both your personal and professional life.

Happy New Year!